See the mint-green house below?
Two dreams came true there.
1) My dream this summer was to interact with children in need and support a ministry doing amazing work. And that’s exactly what happened.
2) Alicia’s dream years ago was to purchase this dilapidated home and turn it into a redemptive force in the community. And that’s what it is now.
Today I’m sharing about dreams, and the strange ways that they come true. You know that I believe in keeping dreams alive— even when circumstances are challenging.
There are two stories behind our journey to and from Ecuador: the story of my passion to work with children, and the larger story of how Casa Victoria is changing the neighborhood of San Roque. I’ll tell them in order.
1) My story of joy, failure, and renewed hope
If you know me in person, then you might know that for a long time I told everyone that I wanted to be a teacher: an urban teacher, to be exact. I spent most of my summers and free time during college participating in education-related internships and activities.
I worked at a private school in my hometown, I developed curriculum at Stanford, I participated in our branch of Students for Education Reform, and I even met Eve Moskowitz.
I was the education person.
But here’s the truth: I wanted to be a teacher because I wanted to be a consistent presence in kids’ lives. I believed that education was important, but that mentorship, love, and support were even more important.
I desired to help my students feel understood and cared for despite their performance in school or their family circumstances. I believed that public school teaching would help me get there.
So when I applied to a charter school teacher training program, I was sure that it was the right path. Everything fell into place, it seemed, for me to spend my 20s working at an urban school.
At the interview, however, things started feeling a bit wrong. I walked away unsure that I wanted to work at that particular school during this particular season.
And when decisions finally came out, I hadn’t been selected. I was not becoming a teacher in the fall, after all.
One door closed and another door opened.
Before I found out about my rejection, I had learned about Casa Victoria from my friend Katie who writes the blog Hope Engaged. Katie had recently visited Ecuador and stopped by this organization that supports children in a low-income neighborhood.
I was intrigued, so I got in touch with Alicia, who runs Casa Victoria, to see if she could use some help this summer.
She said yes, and it turned out that my husband and I could come volunteer with their summer camp in July. I was elated: because I was no longer doing the teaching program, I would be able to leave the country and participate in CV’s work instead.
The real dream I’m chasing
I don’t know if I will ever find myself working in a traditional urban classroom.
I do currently work with students, and I write this blog, but my dream doesn’t look the way I thought it would. And that is okay. I am okay with that.
The real dream I’m chasing, after all, is to make an impact in the lives of underprivileged children. It took me years– odd as it may seem– to realize that I did not have to be a classroom teacher to do this.
Our time at Casa Victoria was colored with moments of laughter, service, amazement, disappointment, brokenness, and redemption. The children shared their stories with us: stories that were being changed by the love and care they receive at Casa Victoria.
The opportunity to be a part of CV’s work was a dream-come-true for me. A small, short dream perhaps, but a dream nonetheless.
2) Alicia and the old mansion in San Roque
Years ago, Alicia was walking through San Roque– a Quito neighborhood broken by poverty, alcoholism, crime and general neglect.
She saw a large, dilapidated house and had the urge to buy it. While she wasn’t sure what exactly she would use it for, she had a feeling there was a divine purpose behind the urge.
Not too long afterward, she and her friends purchased the home and began refurbishing it. During the remodeling process, children from the neighborhood would come by and check things out. They began to get to know the volunteers there, and came more and more often.
One day, the neighborhood children asked if they could sit in front of the house and do their homework. That was the moment that Alicia decided the house would offer a safe place for children.
Now, Casa Victoria, a full-fledged non-profit organization, offers classes, homework support, games, supervision, and mentorship for children in San Roque.
In other words, a woman with a big dream turned a house into a home. Don’t you just love that?
Summer camp adventures with the children of Casa Victoria
Every morning, children would come to hang out with us and go on whatever adventures we had planned. We took them trout fishing, horseback riding, museum-ing, movie watching, and more.
The best part was seeing these kids experience something absolutely new– and the delight on their faces.
Dreams can take unexpected shapes, but they remain the same at their core.
I’ve learned that I don’t have to force my life to look a certain way in order to pursue a dream. Instead, I can pursue it creatively– and believe that it is coming true in ways I cannot fathom.
I don’t have to set parameters for what my dream can consist of. My vision has only expanded since my senior year of college, when I was convinced that I would become a special-ed teacher in Los Angeles.
Maybe one day that will still happen. And maybe it won’t. But the ultimate lesson I’ve learned is that when your ultimate desire is to meet a deep need, that need will likely present itself to you.
I’m so thankful for Alicia and her husband Dan, who both love San Roque’s people with grit and gentleness. They may never have expected their dreams to come true in this way, but it did– and a little underprivileged community is better for it.
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Want to support Casa Victoria? Check out their website (featuring photos by Katie and by me!) to find out how to give! I’ll also be sharing more in a few months about where CV is headed and how you can be involved.
Thanks for reading, Mako!!
Thanks for this post, Daisy!
Thank you Gina! I’m so glad you enjoyed this, and I really appreciate your encouragement! And I really do believe that when we’re on the lookout for needs we can meet with the gifts that we have, we will never run out of things to do!
Thank you Brittany! Dreams certainly do take winding paths and look different from our expectations… and we can choose to be disappointed, or we can be excited for the adventure! Thanks for reading and for your kind words, friend!
Very amazing stories, Daisy. Thank you so much for sharing more about Casa Victoria and about your dreams. I love the idea that our dreams and vision expands and that it is expanding even when we don’t know it. It’s all in the journey and in the little details we live out everyday. And yes, wow I loved what you said about if your desire is to meet a deep need, that it will present itself to you. I definitely believe that. This post makes me so happy and I’m so happy you were able to visit Ecuador and go on this adventure!
Two absolutely beautiful stories, Daisy! Thanks for sharing more of your heart for education and children, and for sharing this story of hope and history behind Casa Victoria. It’s amazing to me how many times my dreams have come true, even when I thought they were dashed forever. Dreams often take winding paths and look so different than we thought they would by the end, but when it hits you that it really has all come to fruition, it’s purely magical. I’m so glad this happened for you here!
So great! Thanks for sharing about the work you’re doing, Leslie!!
Oh my goodness. I love that. 1- it’s kids and 2 – what a fabulous house. I love old architecture. Yes our lives rarely turn out to be what we thought they would. I thought I wanted to be a paralegal when I was in high school. Now I’m a technology manager by day and sell jewelry by night at my site LittleGemsUSA.com BUT I do that for the kids. 🙂 We’re sponsoring the education of 6 extremely poor children in Rwanda. I work with lovealiveinternational.com All the best to you and the path God has put you on. So far from what I can see… it’s extremely beautiful.
Absolutely! Simple joys.
Thanks Nabihah!! That is really kind of you– honestly it’s just so much fun!
Thanks friend!! XO
Wow!! I had no idea Julie! I’m encouraged to read about your experience… and to know I’m not the only one. The Lord certainly directs us in surprising and amazing ways.
You’re welcome!
You can do this in the USA as well. I volunteered with a group for underprivileged kids in Minneapolis, MN, and their favorite of our activities was when we took them roller skating. I also worked for awhile with the Bucket Brigade where you work one on one with a child that needs extra attention during school hours. There are so many opportunities to be there for kids in need.
This makes me so so happy! I’m so glad you’re doing what your love and I’m even more glad that what you love is such a kind, wonderful act!
Aw, this makes me so happy! Glad you could go out and make a difference!
I had no idea about this dream of yours Daisy! We have somewhat similar backgrounds actually! I studied education and taught English overseas and then in American public schools. I had always thought teaching in the public schools was my dream, but then when things didn’t go as smoothly as I thought- my world was rocked. Fast forward two years later and now my husband and I are embarking on another adventure in teaching English overseas, and I am so excited! It is so interesting how you can be so set on one thing, but God reveals something surprising and so much better!
It was such a great place, I also wish you knew about it, I’m sure you’d be great there! It’s a fun place to visit even for a day.
Thank you Hannah!! That is so kind of you!!
Yes!! Also we should talk about CV some time!
Aw thank you Mica! Thanks so much for reading and your kind words.
It’s such a great place, Alyssa! And thank you for reading my reflections on changing dreams– I really appreciate it.
Casa Victoria sounds awesome! I wish I knew about it when I was picking internships in Ecuador. Well, if I go back, I’ll definitely keep this in mind 🙂 Thanks for telling us about it!
I love this!!! I’m so glad you are involved in such an awesome thing! Praying God uses you and this sweet place in awesome ways!!
Don’t you love when your dreams change and things end up working out in a way that makes you happier than what you originally planned for?
I would absolutely love to get involved with CV! I’m going to look more into it! My husband and I would probably really love spending some volunteer time there at some point =)
I am so glad you are realising your dream, even if it’s not on the path you had imagined it to be at first! It’s a wonderful thing Casa Victoria are doing.
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I remember reading about CV on Katie’s blog a while back and it was great to see what an amazing time she had; I am so glad you got to experience the same! It’s a good observation that you had about not having to force our lives to look a certain way to “achieve” our dreams. We can take many avenues to fulfill our goals and create our ideal lives.