A Russian River Valley getaway & birthday reflections

The Russian River Valley is a stunning part of Sonoma County, California. Driving on quiet forest-vineyard roads carved through the countryside brings a feeling of nostalgia I can't quite name. While the rugged coast is not far away, life along the river feels a bit...

Concepción, Colombia: a hidden gem retreat from Medellín

There's a reason magical realism arose in Colombia. Between its lush greenery, impossible-to-govern terrain, kind people, and bright colors, there's a dreamy quality to the country that I hope never goes away. Understandably, Colombia is rising in popularity....

8 beautiful things to do in Porto, Portugal

Welcome to Porto. Porto is the stunning, magical sister of Lisbon, Portugal's capital. Upon arrival in its historic center, we are struck by its blend of old and new, its tiled facades, its welcoming walkability. Porto is where I found some of Portugal's traditional...

A getaway guide to Douro Valley, Portugal’s wine country

There are destinations that are worthy of a thoughtful visit once in a lifetime— and once might just be enough. And then there are places that beckon you right back, even as you depart. Douro Valley is one of those places for me.    Portugal has so much to offer...

Lisbon, Portugal: a travel guide for curious wanderers

Our Lisbon Portugal travel blog with our favorite views, food recommendations, and the way to wander through the city.

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Wedding Snapshots: Our Dancing Nature

Wedding Snapshots: Our Dancing Nature

Not everyone is a talented social dancer. By the age of twelve I had done extensive amounts of ballet, tap and jazz dancing, but I still don't consider myself an excellent social dancer. Thankfully, people are pretty forgiving of those of us who don't perform an...

A Thank-You Note for You

Friends, it's Thanksgiving! As you probably know, I'm cooking up a storm in my parents' home in Northern California, and getting ready to feast with beloved family members today. But I wanted to stop in this morning and say what deep gratitude I have for each and...

Cooking All Day and Instalately!

Cooking All Day and Instalately!

Hi Everyone! I usually do a Get To Know Me Better post on Wednesdays, but today I'll be sharing something a little different. For the next 30+ hours, my husband and I will be cooking up a storm as we get ready for our Thanksgiving feast! Since I won't be around to...

On Anti-Aging (and 5 tips that won’t break the bank!)

On Anti-Aging (and 5 tips that won’t break the bank!)

Around the time my mother turned 50, I started hearing from friends and acquaintances that she looked especially youthful and young. And it's true; you probably would not be able to guess her age just by looking at her. It's uncanny how little she's aged. But lately,...

Wedding Snapshots: Act Naturally

Wedding Snapshots: Act Naturally

The strange thing about taking couple shots is that a "candid" is hardly ever a pure candid. If you've posed for engagement or wedding photographs, then you know what I mean-- as much as we try to forget the cameras are there, we can't. But there's something so...

A Letter To My Students

Have you ever wondered why teachers do what they do? My dear blog friend Hannah from Just Bee Blog is taking over today and sharing a letter she would write to her students! Please show Hannah some love, and then head over to her blog to read about why I want to be a...

Get To Know Me Better: Vol 4

For those of you just catching up with this series, I'm sharing a few facts about myself every Wednesday and hoping you'll share something as well! I've learned so much about you and am loving it! 1) My husband and I are shameless coffee snobs. Thanks to him, you...

Gratitude Pours Forth.

Gratitude Pours Forth.

Gratitude has been a buzzword lately. Because Thanksgiving is just around the corner, I am seeing more and more "grateful hearts" and "gratitude lists" than before. And I love it. I love hearing about what people are grateful for-- big and small. It brings a smile to...

Little Girl Loves

Little Girl Loves

When I was a little girl, I loved all things stereotypically girly. Lace, chiffon, beads, dresses, long hair, jewelry, tights, satin-- all of it (though I preferred green over pink)! I was constantly begging my mother to allow me to get my ears pierced, and I even...

Wedding Snapshots: Not Just About the Bride

Wedding Snapshots: Not Just About the Bride

Towards the end of our wedding, I toasted our guests. I wanted them to know how truly special they were. I wanted to thank our dear friends and family for not only celebrating us, but for making us for who we were. You see, the wedding industry will sometimes insist...

For The Kids Who Don’t Have Too Much

For The Kids Who Don’t Have Too Much

Happy Friday, everyone! Today I want to share something with you that is very special to me. If you're looking to do something a little different this holiday season, then I hope you'll join me in packing a shoe box for Operation Christmas Child. OCC receives and...

4 Reasons to Travel More

4 Reasons to Travel More

Some of us love the idea of jetting off to a new destination. Others of us can't think of anything more stressful. But however you feel about boarding an airplane, traveling occasionally is extremely important. And I would like to expand the definition of travel...

Get to know me better: Vol 3

I am loving this series because I'm getting to know so many of YOU! So keep the fun facts coming-- you all are such interesting and amazing people. And if you'd like to catch up on previous posts in this series, click here. 1) One of my "back-burner" dreams is to open...

Classroom Ready

Classroom Ready

In Southern California, looking professional while fitting in can be more of a challenge than it seems. Women appear to fill their closets with laid-back attire that is also excruciatingly trendy. While I can appreciate a tasteful crop top or romper, these aren't...

Thanksgiving Menus and Memories

Thanksgiving Menus and Memories

Every Thanksgiving, my hospitable heart flutters with excitement as nearly all of its dreams come true. The reason why I adore Thanksgiving so much is that it brings together three things I love: hospitality, gratitude, and good food. Ever since I helped cook a...

Wedding Snapshots: Florals and Details

Wedding Snapshots: Florals and Details

There is so much artistry that goes into a wedding. I had never imagined that getting married would mean connecting with some of the most creative minds in San Francisco. From floral arrangements to tableware to lighting to food, there are so many details that pull an...

Vegan Lunch: Soba with Broccoli, Tofu and Avocado Hummus Sauce

Vegan Lunch: Soba with Broccoli, Tofu and Avocado Hummus Sauce

One of my college friends was a committed vegetarian. She told me once, "You can be a good vegetarian or a bad vegetarian. A good vegetarian actually eats vegetables. A bad one eats grilled cheese and cereal." So true, I thought. I'm no vegetarian, much less a vegan....

10 Things to Avoid During an Argument

10 Things to Avoid During an Argument

Arguments and fights-- we've all been there. And despite the fact that these are far from enjoyable, we know that every good friendship and relationship has its tense moments. However, many of us also do things that make our arguments counterproductive. Rather than...

Get to know me better: Vol 2

Get to know me better: Vol 2

Last week, I started a new series where I'll be sharing a few details about myself! I've realized that while our blogs focus on our passions, we sometimes leave out the little things that make us who we are. Through this series, I'll share a bit more about me and I...

Earl Grey Shortbread Cookies

Earl Grey Shortbread Cookies

This past year, Earl Grey became one of my favorite black teas. The sweetness of bergamot is both calming and energizing at the same time. And though this tea is ubiquitous, it somehow escapes cliche-- at least in my book! So of course I'm looking for creative ways to...

So Chill.

So Chill.

I've always loved the idea of a soft old t-shirt that I could wear everywhere. But for some reason, most of my old t-shirts are stiff as ever, no matter how many times I wear and wash them. So I've been on the lookout for a compromise: clothing that is unbelievably...

Wedding Snapshots: I love you, Mom.

Wedding Snapshots: I love you, Mom.

I just got back from the first baby shower I've ever attended. The woman of honor was my new friend Lindsay, who is about to have her second daughter! While some of us who attended had never had children, there were a few experienced moms there who gladly shared some...

This November.

This November.

I am so excited that tomorrow it will be November (oh, and Happy Halloween). By the mere fact that Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, it's highly possible that November is my favorite month. I'm expecting lower temperatures here in SoCal, and look forward to...

Blogging: Real Connections and Genuine Community

Blogging: Real Connections and Genuine Community

One of the best things about blogging is being able to make real connections and experience a vibrant online community. But how do we do that? Is it possible to make real connections AND grow our blog? You have probably heard that success in business is based on the...

Get to know me better: Vol. 1

Get to know me better: Vol. 1

Happy Wednesday, friends! I'm kicking off this new midweek series where I'm going to share a bit more about myself. I've realized that while I do write a lot of personal posts, there is not always a ton of detail about me. So on Wednesdays, I'll be sharing a few facts...

3 Autumn Drinks to Make Instantly

3 Autumn Drinks to Make Instantly

I'm usually all about slow food, slow cooking, and making from scratch. (Go figure-- I was the slowest eater among my family members growing up!) But sometimes it's nice to be able to throw something together for yourself or a friend without ending up with flour...

Holiday Season Ready

Holiday Season Ready

[Sponsored Post] I can't tell you how much the onset of the holiday season excites me. My favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, so there's no doubt that I've already begun testing out recipes. Only the best will be served on the big day! I know it feels a bit early to...

Wedding Snapshots: Entrances and Exits

Wedding Snapshots: Entrances and Exits

There's a lot of entering and exiting in a wedding. I remember being inundated with emotion each time: leaving my bridesmaids for our first-look photo shoot; entering the room where my groom was waiting; then entering the ceremony on the arm of my father to standing...

Homemade Pasta 101

Homemade Pasta 101

Happy Friday, friends! Here's my promised tutorial for delicious homemade pasta. There's something so delightful about the bouncy, supple texture of fresh pasta-- it's flavorful, robust, and unforgettable. I might even say that once you've tasted this stuff, you'll...

8 Questions to Ask Before You Sponsor

8 Questions to Ask Before You Sponsor

Thinking about sponsoring other blogs? With so many great bloggers and offers, how in the world do you decide whom to sponsor? First, it is important to consider what it means for you to sponsor someone. Sponsorship versus Advertisement... While in the blogosphere the...

Why You’re Already a Philanthropist

Why You’re Already a Philanthropist

I used to think philanthropy was a rich man's world. Industrial tycoons and their petty female arm candy who attended fancy galas and bought things at auctions-- that was my picture of philanthropy. And ultimately, I thought the point was to receive a tax break,...

Achievable All Black

Achievable All Black

Does the idea of wearing all black intimidate you? It doesn't have to! In fact, your go-to all-black outfit can be appropriate for so many occasions. Furthermore, putting together your two favorite black pieces is even more versatile than purchasing the all too...

Wedding Snapshots: Why Your Girlfriends Still Matter

Wedding Snapshots: Why Your Girlfriends Still Matter

Welcome to a new weekend series! In Wedding Snapshots, I'll be sharing some photographs from my wedding and reflecting on what those special moments meant to me. I hope you'll celebrate along with me as I reminisce! Why Your Girlfriends Still Matter Balancing a...

Guest Post: Style Inspiration on a Budget

Guest Post: Style Inspiration on a Budget

Happy Friday, friends! Today I'm excited to introduce you to my friend Liz who blogs at Liz and Lifestyle! Liz is an amazing stylist who can put together the prettiest ensembles. Some of her posts have me just aching to run to the mall! From interior design to...

Butternut Squash Soup and Sauce

Butternut Squash Soup and Sauce

As promised, I'm sharing the butternut squash soup that I used as a pasta sauce over our homemade pappardelle the other night. Squashes are now in season and they make wonderful ingredients for hosting dinner or for weekday meals. This yummy soup is a great dish to...

9 Ways to be a Better Blogger

9 Ways to be a Better Blogger

First, a confession. To be honest, this post was originally titled "9 Things Bloggers Do That Annoy Me". But since I'm learning to be gentle, I thought I'd make the title a bit more positive. So consider these some simple tips from a friend! Though I'm a relatively...

Pixie Pants and Bright Colors

Pixie Pants and Bright Colors

Have you considered the pixie pants trend yet? These pretty printed pants are so comfortable and transition easily from work to recreation. In fact, one of my favorite fashion bloggers Sydne Summer made a video about how to wear pixie pants just last month! When it...

Fun Sunday Five: Vol 6

Fun Sunday Five: Vol 6

Are you a DIY-er? I'm learning about it, but crafting is a huge challenge for me. This week I collected some more projects that seem pretty manageable. If you have any suggestions, let me know! Have a lovely Sunday, friends! Make this gorgeous gold marbled pencil...

My First Video and Blog Awards!

Happy Saturday, friends! Recently I was tagged/nominated by some wonderful blogger friends to share a few facts about myself. Rather than doing 4 separate posts, I'm answering only 1 set of questions in my VERY FIRST VIDEO! This is a bit nerve wracking, but I love...

Handle With Gentleness.

Handle With Gentleness.

I am often not a gentle person. I'm brash, stubborn, opinionated and determined. I can be easily angered. And in my campaign to prove that I'm right, I often intimidate others into silence. This may be hard to believe, but those who know me well can testify to seeing...

Boozy Pumpkin Pie

Boozy Pumpkin Pie

I'm not much of a hard liquor drinker, but I have a weakness for boozy desserts! This pumpkin pie has whiskey in both the filling and the cream on top. So it's basically a recipe for warm, cuddly, happy autumn feelings! Boozy Pumpkin Pie Pie Ingredients: 1 premade pie...

What My Blog Doesn’t Say About Me

What My Blog Doesn’t Say About Me

Friends, I've been confounded lately by the pressure for bloggers to be more and more naked in front of their readers. No, not genuine-- naked. It's almost as though if I show my thighs or how I look when I'm sick, I'm automatically going to be more popular. Or, if I...

The Silk Top and the Blazer

The Silk Top and the Blazer

Anyone living in SoCal right now is seasonally confused. We're probably autumn's hugest fans, but thanks to the heatwave we can't dress to show our obsession. However, there are still ways to wear our favorite fall colors even when it feels like summer's still here....

Fun Sunday Five: Vol 5

Happy Sunday, friends! I've been having a bit of a pasta kick lately, so I'm posting five achievable autumn pasta recipes to try. One of my (unnamed) goals for October is to make fresh spinach pasta with our Kitchenaid pasta attachment. If we are successful I will be...

Tea 101: A Guide to Steeping

Tea 101: A Guide to Steeping

As Autumn enters full-swing, the idea of savoring some hot tea with a good book (or blog!) becomes more and more appealing. I love drinking tea whether I'm working, writing, or relaxing. It's an amazing beverage! But did you know that different teas ought to be...

This October.

This October.

Friends, this is going to be a great month. Some of my sweet blog friends have shared their October goals and dreams, so I thought I would share mine! This time last year... I was in Cambridge, MA finishing up my senior year of college. I celebrated the birthdays of...

Why the 5 Love Languages are Essential for Friendship

Why the 5 Love Languages are Essential for Friendship

You have probably heard of the 5 love languages, often used in reference to romantic relationships. The idea is this: if you know that your partner expresses and receives love in a certain way, then it will help you better demonstrate love to her/him, and receive...

I Am Not Anonymous.

I Am Not Anonymous.

Last week, a friend shared with me the most courageous website I have ever seen. I Am Not Anonymous is a blog filled with stories written by men and women recovering from addiction. There's pain, despair, grit, and victory-- all out there with their names and faces...

Big Sur, California

Big Sur, California

Driving down from the Monterey Peninsula to the Central Coast is a little bit like a walk into Narnia. There's a definite resemblance to the world from which you've come: crashing waves, endless ocean and a cold breeze. But as Highway One winds its way up the cliffs...